Thursday, February 27, 2020

Rewinding Your Life




Do you ever go throughout your life and wish you could have a do over on something that happened as recently as yesterday, or something as distant as ten years ago? You just wish there was a giant "rewind" button that you could push that would take you back in time and give you another chance to correct whatever it was that you did. Unfortunately we don't have a button like this. Once we make a decision to do something, that decision is final and there is no going back. In this week's blog article I want to offer you some advice on things that you can do that will help you make the right decisions that will hopefully lead to you not regretting them down the road.

1. Think before you speak. Before you speak, think about the lasting consequences it could have. Before you blurt something out just because you want to, think about it first and ask yourself "does what I am about to say contribute to the discussion in a positive way?" "Will what I am about to say hurt the person(s) that I am engaged in conversation with?" Our words are very powerful and sometimes hurtful things. What we say, that might be a joke to us, could be perceived the exact opposite way to another person. In Ephesians 4:29, Paul tells the members of the church at Ephesus, "Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good and necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers." What should we use our mouths for? We should use them to encourage and build people up, not tear them down. Think about all the celebrities that have had their careers ruined because of something they said. The same goes for us today. What we say to others, can have lasting consequences, some of which can not be undone.

2. Think before you act. How do you act around people that you just met, or those that might be strangers to you? If you're anything like me, you attempt to strike up conversation with them. Do you start joking with them right away? Of course not. When looking for someone to evangelize, do you start off right away telling them about the Gospel? No, you have to allow them time to warm up to you. When you are around someone that you don't know well, do you carry yourself in a humble manner, or do you walk around like a big shot, "like you own the place?" In Proverbs 13:16, we are told that "Every prudent man acts with knowledge, but a fool lays open his folly." Before you act on something, involving another person(s), make sure that you take into account all of the concerns, requests, and needs of that other individual(s). If not, you run the risk of coming across as a "Bible beater," and you will regret your actions down the road when you lose the chance to evangelize that individual(s).

3. Think before you make a big (potentially life altering) decision. Think about some of the biggest decisions that you will ever make. Buying a house, a car, getting married, having children, and most importantly obeying the Gospel. How long do we think about making these decisions before we actually follow through with them? Do we wake up one morning and say "I'm going to buy a house today." I suppose some people do that, but an investment that big, deserves at least a little bit of thought. Think about getting married. Do a man and woman meet, date, get engaged, and get married all in a day? I guess if you dig hard enough you might find a case like that, but it's very rare. Before we make a major decision, it's wise to take the time to think things through so that we won't have regrets later on. Remember, we don't have a magical "rewind" button that we can push and go back and correct a mistake we might have made. Once the decision is made, it's made. Once you marry, you have to live with that other person "until death do us part." When we make a decision (big or small), we must follow Paul's instruction to the church at Colossae in Colossians 3:17, "And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord, Jesus." Every decision we make must be done in the name of Jesus. We must pray to Him for strength, comfort, and understanding when we make these potentially life altering decisions.

Friends, it is very easy to live in the past. We do things and then we catch ourselves thinking "why did I do, say, or act like that? All we can do in those moments is to learn from them and vow to do better. We can't go back and change anything, I don't care if it happened yesterday or ten years ago. Just use those instances as learning experiences and move on. For months I struggled with getting the church bus stuck in the mud. I desperately wanted to go back in time and change what happened, but guess what, it's a learning experience for me. The old saying goes, "Those that do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it." Learn from past mistakes, grow from them, and become a better person and Christian.

In Him,

Carver Moore

We would be honored for you to join us for worship at the Chestnut Mound church of Christ.
Our service times are as follows:
Sunday Morning Bible study: 10 am
Sunday morning worship: 11 am
Sunday evening worship: 5 pm

Thursday, February 20, 2020

Are You "Coachable?"


Have you ever heard someone say, when talking about another person, "you can't tell them anything, they just think they know it all." Believe it or not, we live in a world where no one likes being told they are wrong. People today can't stand the least bit of correction. The person is not correcting you because you're incompetent, but because they want to teach you something and they want you to improve. During the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays I was reminded of this (even though being reminded I am wrong has and continues to be a daily reminder).

My grandfather and I are extremely close. We have been running around together since I was born. During the holiday season, we mutually decided that it was time that I learn how to drive his Jeep, which just so happens to have a manual transmission. The Jeep is as old as I am and has been a staple in my life for years, so I jumped at this opportunity. While dinner was being prepared my grandfather and I took off in the Jeep down to the Granville Cemetery. This is a perfect place to learn since the cemetery has several driveways where we can start and stop and practice changing the gears. For about an hour I was constantly stalling the engine out. I kept this up until finally he said, "that's it, turn it off, get out, and let me have it." We swapped seats and he said, "now I'm going to show you a way to be smooth with this thing." He proceeded to show me how to effortlessly shift the gears using just the right amount of coordination between his right hand and left foot. He said, "this is not like those automatic cars that you don't have to put any effort into, this thing requires finesse." Well he stopped the Jeep again and we swapped places once again. Guess what happened? I took his advice to heart and I didn't stall the engine out near as much.

On Christmas Day, we once again got out in the Jeep before dinner. We went back to Granville, but this time we were going to practice taking off on hills. I drove up to about the center of the hill there in the cemetery and my grandpa said, "put it in neutral wait a few seconds like you're at a traffic light, and then take off." Well I did what he said, but I stalled the motor (first time all day) and we rolled backwards down the hill. I tried again, you guessed it same result. After a few minutes of trying and failing, he finally said "get out." So we swapped seats and he once again coached me up on what I should do. He said, "remember what I said about finesse? All you have to do is ease off the brake, keep your foot on the clutch, gently hit the gas, and then ease your foot off the clutch." After a few times of watching him do this, it was my turn. I drove up the hill about halfway, put the Jeep in neutral, waited a few seconds, and then took off. We didn't roll back down the hill, but I absolutely floored it and we "peeled out" (I didn't stall it out though). This time, my grandfather didn't say anything. I said, "how was that?" He said, "what do you think?" I said, "not good huh." He said, "you are to used to driving an automatic transmission all the time, and don't realize the finesse this thing requires." So after a few more hours, I finally got the hang of it. My grandpa said that I had improved so much from Thanksgiving to Christmas that he let me drive the Jeep back to the farm. Guess what, I didn't stall the motor or have any troubles on inclines the entire drive back. It's all about being open minded. Checking your ego at the door, and realizing there's people out there that know more about things than you do. There's a few spiritual applications that I want to make here.

1. People have always felt like they know everything, even in Bible times. Do you remember what King Jeroboam did in I Kings 12? Starting in verse 25, Jeroboam concocts a scheme to shift the balance of power in Israel away from the tribe of Levi, instead to the tribes of Bethel and Dan. No one was going to tell Jeroboam that what he was doing was wrong, and if they had, he would have blown them off. In the first few verses of chapter 13, we see that a "man of God" comes to Jeroboam and tells him that Josiah is going to be born of the house of David and will eventually become king. In verse 4, we see that Jeroboam commands the man to be removed from his presence. Jeroboam does not want to hear that he is wrong. Now look at the Children of Israel as they are being led out of Egypt. In Exodus 16:3; 17:3; and 32:1. In each of these verses, the Israelites are constantly complaining against Moses and the fact that he led them out of Egypt into the middle of nowhere. They failed in each of these three verses to trust, listen, and obey God, Moses, and the bigger picture. Finally, I am sure all of you reading this remember the Pharisees. In our Sunday morning Bible study, we have been studying through the book of Matthew. In your personal study, I encourage you to read through this book and take note of each of the Pharisees interactions with Jesus. In each interaction, the Pharisees attempt to disprove the things Jesus is teaching and preaching. When Jesus tries to correct them, it goes in one ear and out the other. How do we avoid being like Jeroboam, the Israelites, and the Pharisees?

2. We should be "coachable." What does a coach do? They teach their players how to play a particular sport. What do parents do? They teach their children right from wrong and how to live their  lives. What does the Bible do? It teaches us how to get to Heaven. It teaches us how to live our lives. It teaches us how to treat others. The things written in its pages are the truth and were inspired by God. Do we allow the words of the Bible to "coach us?" When we sit down and read it, or listen to a man preach and/or teach from it, do we take the words to heart? Do we speed read through it, or immerse ourselves in it? Do we read it and find it interesting, yet allow it to enter our short term memory? Do we think we are "to good" for the Bible? Do we fail to realize the power of the Scriptures? In I Peter 1:23 and 25, we are told that the word of God is "incorruptible" and "endures forever." Friends the Bible is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Allow it to coach us, mold us, and make us better people and most importantly Christians.

Friends, we are so lucky to be surrounded by people that love us and want to teach us and make us better people and Christians. We are so lucky that we have the Bible readily available to us. Allow it to teach us, mold us, and make us better. Just like learning to drive a manual transmission vehicle, the Bible requires a lot of study. Make sure you commit yourself fully to Bible study and put what you learn into practice daily. Friends, I love you, the Chestnut Mound church of Christ loves you, and most importantly God loves you.

In Him,

Carver Moore

We would be honored for you to join us for worship at the Chestnut Mound church of Christ.
Our service times are as follows:
Sunday Morning Bible study: 10 am
Sunday morning worship: 11 am
Sunday evening worship: 5 pm

Thursday, February 13, 2020

You Never Mentioned Him to Me


Last night I was tasked with teaching the college class at Willow Avenue church of Christ. The main theme of my lesson was evangelism, however one of my points was that evangelism requires a certain degree of courage. Think about it, to go up to someone that you might have never met, and talk to them about the gospel, it can be intimidating. I used the following example to illustrate my point last night.

Every month, myself and Willow Avenue's deacon over transportation take turns going over to the building and checking on the busses. We make sure that their exterior and interior's are clean, that they have gas, and are running properly. Willow Avenue has a charge account for gas at the Shell station across the interstate from the building. Every time I go in there to pay for the gas, there's a young man working in there that always talks about Spiritual matters. I don't know if this is something that he does to everyone, or if he looks out and sees the mobile billboard I'm driving and decides to discuss the Bible with me. The past few times I've gone in there, I've tried to do my best to end the conversation and get back out to the bus so I can take it back to the church building and go home. But as I was preparing my lesson for class Wednesday night, I really got to thinking about if I was doing the right thing. It has nagged at my concise enough, that I have vowed that next time I go in there and that guy is working, I am going to ask about his Spiritual background.

I told the college kids last night that they have the greatest platform that a Christian can have. They encounter hundreds of people everyday in their classes or walking across campus that don't know God. They have so many opportunities to reach out to someone and invite them to church or to a college event. All it takes is a little courage and willingness to get outside our comfort zone.

The title of this article is taken from the song entitled "You Never Mentioned Him to Me." I didn't really think about the meaning of this song until Brother Ben Smith was talking about it in a class on evangelism. He said that song should tear us up inside every time we sing it. Think about it, the lyrics speak for themselves. "You never mentioned Him to me, you helped me not the light to see, you met me day by day and knew I was astray, yet never mentioned Him to me." How many people do we let fall through the cracks because we don't have the courage to go talk to them? If that person winds up being lost, do you want that on your conscience?

In Psalms 27:14, the Psalmist tells us to "Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait I say on the Lord." If we are going to have a great degree of courage, who does it come through? You guessed it, it comes through God. As we wait for judgement day, we have to have the courage to believe that it's going to happen. When we lay our heads down at night, it takes courage to know that we will wake up in a new day. Likewise when we approach someone to study the Bible with them, it takes a degree of courage.

Think about how many people you encounter every day. I told the college kids last night that I'm envious of them, because of how many people they interact with every day. If one in every 10, 20, 30, people you interact with in a day agreed to come to church with you, think about how the church would grow. You could potentially save that person's soul. You could be the reason they get to Heaven. But on the other hand if you don't say anything to them, you could be the reason they burn in the eternal lake of fire. In Mark 16:15, we are commanded to "Go into all the world and make disciples of every creature." It takes courage, but are you willing to step out of your comfort zone to save souls?

In Him,

Carver Moore

We would be honored for you to join us for worship at the Chestnut Mound church of Christ.
Our service times are as follows:
Sunday Morning Bible study: 10 am
Sunday morning worship: 11 am
Sunday evening worship: 5 pm

Tuesday, February 4, 2020

Tired in the Work, but Not of the Work


Throughout my life, I have heard people talk about how time flies as you get older. The main reason for this? You become busier. I always took this with a grain of salt. Throughout my years of high school and college I "flew by the seat of my pants," and was always waiting for the next great thing to happen. I didn't stop and appreciate life and really live in the moment. I wanted high school and college to be over as quickly as possible so that I could go on to the next thing. The only thing that made high school bearable was playing football, and the only thing that made college bearable was the Servants of Christ Campus Ministry. I have never really realized how much I miss those days until recently.

Do you all ever have those weeks or days where it seems like the entire world is depending on you? Just last week, I began to think about this. My last week and a half, involved sermon and Bible Class prep, a trip to Nashville for a board meeting, and a trip to the county clerk's office to get the license renewed on a church bus. While these things caused me to become tired, I wouldn't have traded them for anything else in the world. When I did catch myself telling myself how tired I was, I thought about how blessed I am to be able to set a schedule and carry out said schedule throughout the week. I have never really thought about my response to people when they ask how I am. I usually say "I'm busy, but I guess that's a good thing. Better to have something to do than nothing at all." How many people do you know that suffer from a physical ailment that causes them to not be able to go about a daily routine? Friends we take working and running errands for granted. We go through life and do nothing but complain. Why not thank God for the ability to live and breath and wake up each new day? Do we sometimes wish that we could go back to our childhood and not have a care in the world? Yes of course!! But "adulting" involves embracing greater responsibility. It's amazing how much my priorities have changed from high school and college to now. In high school my number one priority was how fast I was going to run the forty yard dash or what I needed to do on a particular play. In college my number one priority was how much I should study for a particular test. At the time those things were tiring, but now they seem so simple (maybe everything but the tests haha!!).

The title of this article is taken from one of the very first sermons I ever preached. It is what I like to call "A Clarence Deloach original." The sermon text is from Malachi 1:6-14, and in the introduction, Brother Deloach states that one of the major themes of the text is that we often grow tired in the work, or while engaged in it, but we can't allow ourselves to grow tired of the work, or become "burned out." The prophet Malachi is telling of the corruptness of the people he is surrounded by. He says in v. 13, "oh what a weariness." The weariness of these people has caused them to cut corners and offer defiled or unclean things to God. Does our weariness today cause us to cut corners? It would be easy for me to prepare a sermon and fill it full of my opinion instead of Scripture. Is that ok? What about a doctor? He or she could decide that they are at whit's end and instead of preforming a life saving operation, they give you some pills and send you on your way. Is this the correct way we should be as Christians? Of course not. Things are going to take a toll on us physically, but instead of complaining (social media makes this ten times easier), be thankful that you can do these things. Young people, never take your high school and college days for granted. Those are some of the most carefree times that you will have. Live in the moment and don't wish your life away. In Matthew 6:34, Jesus tells us "Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things."

The #1 thing that will kill the church is burnout. Members, ministers, elders, and deacons labor so much and for so long and sometimes rarely get a thank you. They have families and secular jobs that also take up much of their time. Friends, we are blessed. When we are tempted to complain about our families, jobs, lack of material blessings, I challenge you to stop and count your blessings. You might just be surprised to realize that you are blessed WAY beyond what you deserve.

In Him,

Carver Moore

We would be honored for you to join us for worship at the Chestnut Mound church of Christ.
Our service times are as follows:
Sunday Morning Bible study: 10 am
Sunday morning worship: 11 am
Sunday evening worship: 5 pm